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What Man Doesn’t Claim His Love Language is Physical Touch?
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The five love languages theory has been debunked, but the beliefs persist.
Likely because it’s an easy out.
Oh, your love language is words of affirmation?
Cool, “You are a wonderful person and I love you.” Now can I go back to ignoring you?
The problem is that a healthy and happy relationship encompasses every one of the five “love languages”.
There’s no short cut. There’s no cheat code.
And from what I can tell every man says his primary love language is physical touch and that his secondary love language is words of affirmation.
Translation — I will tell you that you have to have sex with me because I don’t feel loved if you don’t. And you should probably tell me how great I am as well, even though I’m not.
I was in a relationship with a man who was genuinely in love with me.
And I knew it.
